MEDITATION
- What is meditation?
- Can meditation be dangerous? Some
people say you can go crazy from it. Is that true?
- How do we learn meditation? What
kinds of meditation are there?
- What are the benefits of meditation?
- Can one get clairvoyance powers
through practicing Buddhism? Is this a worthwhile goal to
pursue?
STEPS ALONG THE
PATH
- Who is an arhat (arahat)? What is
nirvana (nibbana)?
- What is bodhi or enlightenment?
- What is bodhisattva, a dedicated being?
- What is an arya, a superior or noble
one?
SELFLESSNESS
- Do "selflessness"
and "emptiness" mean the same thing?
- What is the advantage of realizing
selflessness or emptiness?
- What does it mean to say, "All
persons and phenomena are empty of true or inherent existence?"
- If all people and phenomena are
selfless or empty, does that mean that nothing exists?
- What is the best way to realize
emptiness of inherent existent?
VAJRAYANA
- What is Vajrayana?
- What is an initiation? Why are there
some teachings that are "secret"?
- What does the imagery in tantric
art mean?
- What is the purpose of reciting
mantras like "om mani padme hung"? What does that
mantra mean?
THE
FIVE WONDEFUL PRECEPTS
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I
Wonder Why
Preface
I had been in Singapore just a few days
when a young man appeared at my door. "Can I ask you
some questions about Buddhism?" he queried. We sat
down and began to talk. Some of his questions were similar
to the ones that westerners who were just meeting Buddhism
would ask. Yet others were peculiar to Asians who had grown
up in societies where Buddhism and the old folk religions
were often mixed up, at least in the minds of the lay people.
As I began teaching in Singapore, I noticed over and over
again that the same questions were being asked. Especially
the young people, who were intelligent and educated, were
earnestly seeking to understand Buddhism and its relationship
to modern life.
Soon thereafter, another man came to
see me, and in the course of our discussion he said, "We
need to hear about Buddha’s teaching in everyday English,
a clear explanation without a lot of Pali and Sanskrit terms
that we do not understand. Why not print a book with some
of your talks? I would be happy to help you."
The idea to write this small book thus
came from these two people – Lee Siew Cheung and Robert
Gwee. My motivation has been to benefit others, although
my knowledge is limited and my writing style poor. Any mistakes
are due entirely to my own ignorance.
My deepest respect and gratitude is
offered to the Buddhas and to my spiritual masters, especially
His Holiness the Dalai Lama, Tsenzhab Serkong Rinpoche,
and Zopa Rinpoche.
Thubten Chodron.
THE
ESSENCE OF BUDDHISM & THE BUDDHIST TRADITIONS
What
is the essence of the Buddha’s teachings?
Simply speaking, it is to avoid harming
others and to help them as much as possible. Another way
of expressing this is, "Abandon negative action; create
perfect virtue; subdue your own mind. This is the teaching
of the Buddha." By abandoning negative actions (killing,
etc) and destructive motivations (anger, attachment, close-mindedness,
etc.), we stop harming ourselves and others. By creating
perfect virtue, we develop beneficial attitudes, like impartial
love and compassion, and do actions motivated by these thoughts.
By subduing our mind, we cut away all false projections,
thus making ourselves calm and peaceful by understanding
reality.
The essence of Buddha’s teaching is
also contained in the three principles of the path: definite
emergence, the dedicated heart and wisdom realizing emptiness.
Initially, we seek definitely to emerge from the confusion
of our problems and their causes. Then, we see that other
people also have problems, and with love and compassion,
we dedicate our heart to becoming a Buddha so that we are
capable of helping others extensively. In order to do this,
we develop the wisdom understanding the real nature of ourselves
and other phenomena.
What
are the three Jewels? What does it mean to take refuge in
them?
The Three Jewels are the Buddha,
Dharma and Sangha. Buddha is one who has purified all the
defilements of the mind - the afflictive emotions, the imprints
of the actions motivated by them, and the stains of these
afflictive emotions - and who has developed all good qualities,
such as impartial love and compassion, wisdom knowing all
existence, and skilful means of guiding others.
The Dharma embodies the preventive
measures which keep us from problems and suffering. This
includes the teaching of the Buddha, as well as the realizations
of those teachings - the cessations of problems and their
causes, and the realizations or paths which lead to those
cessations.
The Sangha are those beings who have
direct non-conceptual perception of emptiness or ultimate
truth. On a relative level, Sangha also refers to the ordained
people who put the Buddha’s teachings into practice.
The Dharma is our real refuge, the
medicine we take which cures our problems and their causes.
The Buddha is like the doctor, who correctly diagnoses the
cause of our problems and prescribes the appropriate medicine.
By assisting us in the practice, the Sangha is similar to
the nurse who helps us take the medicine.
Taking refuge means that we rely wholeheartedly
on the Three Jewels to inspire and guide us towards a constructive
and beneficial direction to take in our life. Taking refuge
does not mean passively hiding under the protection of Buddha,
Dharma and Sangha. Rather, it is an active process of taking
the direction they show and improving the quality of our
life.
Why
are there many Buddhist traditions?
The Buddha gave a wide variety of teachings
because sentient beings (any being with mind who is not
a Buddha, including those in other realms of existence)
have different dispositions, inclinations and interests.
The Buddha never expected us all to fit into the same mold.
Thus, he gave many teachings and described various ways
of practicing so each of us could find something that suits
our level of mind and our personality. With skill and compassion
in guiding others, the Buddha turned the wheel of Dharma
three times, each time setting forth a slightly different
philosophical system in order to suit the various dispositions
of sentient beings. The essence of all the teachings is
the same: the wish definitely to emerge from the cycle of
constantly recurring problems (samsara), compassion for
others and the wisdom realizing selflessness.
Not everyone likes the same kind of
food. When a huge buffet is spread before us, we choose
the dishes that we like. There is no obligation to like
everything. Although we may have a taste for sweets, that
does not mean that the salty dishes are not good and should
be thrown away! Similarly, we may prefer a certain approach
to the teachings: Theravada, Pure Land, Zen, Vajrayana,
and so on. We are free to choose the approach that suits
us best and with which we feel the most comfortable. Yet
we still maintain an open mind and respect for other traditions.
As our mind develops, we may come to understand elements
in other traditions that we failed to comprehend previously.
In short, whatever is useful and helps us live a better
life, we practice, and whatever we do not yet understand,
we leave aside without rejecting it.
While we may find one particular tradition
best suited for our personality, do not identify with it
in a concrete way: "I am a Mahayanist, you are a Theravadin,"
or "I am a Buddhist, you are a Christian." It
is important to remember that we are all human beings seeking
happiness and wanting to realize the truth, and we each
must find a method suitable for our disposition.
However, keeping an open mind to different
approaches does not mean to mix everything together at random,
making our practice like chop suey. Do not mix meditation
techniques from different traditions together in one meditation
session. In one session, it is better to do one technique.
If we take a little of this technique and a little from
that, and without understanding either one very well mix
them together, we may end up confused. However, a teaching
emphasized in one tradition may enrich our understanding
and practice of another. Also, it is advisable to do the
same meditation daily. If we do breathing meditation one
day, chanting the Buddha’s name the next, and analytical
meditation the third, we will not make progress in any of
them for there is no continuity in the practice.
What
are the various Buddhist traditions?
Generally, there are two divisions:
Theravada and Mahayana. The Theravada lineage (Tradition
of the Elders), which relies on sutras recorded in the Pali
language, spread from India to Sri Lanka, Thailand, Burma,
etc. It emphasizes meditation on the breath to develop concentration
and meditation on mindfulness of the body, feelings, mind
and phenomena in order to develop wisdom. The Mahayana (Great
Vehicle) tradition, based on the scriptures recorded in
Sanskrit spread to China, Tibet, Japan, Korea, Vietnam,
etc. Although in the Theravadin practice love and compassion
are essential and important factors, in the Mahayana they
are emphasized to an even greater extent. Within Mahayana,
there are several branches: Pure Land emphasizes chanting
the name of Amitabha Buddha in order to be reborn in his
pure land; Zen emphasizes meditation to eliminate the noisy,
conceptual mind; Vajrayana (Diamond Vehicle) employ meditation
on a deity in order to transform our contaminated body and
mind into the body and mind of Buddha.
Why
do people in some Buddhist traditions eat meat, while those
in others are vegetarian?
Initially, it may appear confusing
that the Theravada eat meat, the Chinese Mahayanists do
not and the Tibetans, who practice the Vajrayana, do. This
difference in practice depends on the different emphasis
of each tradition: the emphasis of the Theravadin teaching
is to eliminate attachment toward sense objects and to cease
the discriminating mind that says, "I like this and
not that." Thus, when the monks go out on alms round,
they are to accept silently and with gratitude whatever
is offered to them, be it meat or not. It would not only
offend the benefactors but would also harm a monk’s own
practice of detachment, if he said, "I cannot eat meat,
so give me more of those delicious vegetables." Thus,
provided that the meat comes from an animal that the monk
neither orders to be killed, nor sees, hears or suspects
is killed to give him the meat, he is permitted to eat it.
However, it is wise for those who make offerings to remember
that the principal premise of Buddhism is not to harm others,
and to choose what they offer accordingly.
Upon the foundation of detachment,
compassion for other beings is emphasized, especially in
the Mahayana tradition. Thus, for such a practitioner it
is advisable not to eat meat to avoid inflicting pain on
any being and to prevent potential butchers from committing
negative actions. Also, because of the vibration of meat,
it can impede an ordinary practitioner from developing great
compassion. Therefore, vegetarianism is recommended.
The tantric path or Vajrayana has four
classes. In the lower classes, external cleanliness and
purity are emphasized as a technique for the practitioners
to generate internal purity of mind. Therefore, these practitioners
do not eat meat, which is regarded as impure. On the other
hand, in the highest yoga tantra, on the basis of detachment
and compassion, a qualified practitioner does meditation
on the subtle nervous system, and for this, one’s bodily
elements need to be very strong. Thus, meat is recommended
for such a person. Also, this class of tantra stresses the
transformation of ordinary objects through meditation on
selflessness. Such a practitioner, by virtue of his/her
profound meditation, is not greedily eating meat for his/her
own pleasure.
In Tibet, there is an additional factor
to consider: due to the high altitude and harsh climate,
there is little to eat besides ground barley, dairy products
and meat. To stay alive, the people have to eat meat. His
Holiness the Dalai Lama has encouraged those Tibetans in
exile, who now live in countries where vegetables and fruits
are more plentiful, to refrain from eating meat whenever
possible. Also, if a practitioner has severe problems with
his/her health due to not eating meat, then the master may
give permission to take it. Thus, each person must check
his/her own level of practice and bodily requirements and
eat accordingly.
The fact that there is such variety
within the Buddhist doctrine attests to the Buddha’s skill
in being able to guide people according to their dispositions
and needs. It is extremely important not to be partial and
sectarian, but to have respect for all the traditions and
their practitioners.
Why
do some monks and nuns wear saffron robes while others are
dressed in maroon, gray or black?
As the Buddha’s teachings spread from
one country to another, it was flexible and adapted to the
culture and mentality of the people in that place, without
changing its essence and meaning. Thus, the style of the
Sangha’s robes vary. In Sri Lanka, Thailand, Burma, etc.,
the robes are saffron-colored and without sleeves, like
the robes at the time of the Buddha. However, in Tibet dye
of that color was not available, so a deeper color, maroon,
was used. In China the people considered it rude to expose
the skin, so the dress was adapted, the long-sleeved costume
of the T’ang Dynasty being used. The culture considered
saffron too bright for those on a religious path, so the
color was changed to gray. However, the spirit of the original
robes was kept in the form of the seven-and nine-pieced
brown, yellow and red outer robes.
The way the chanting is done in the
various countries is different as well, corresponding to
the culture and language of the place. The musical instruments
differ too, as does the way of bowing. The Chinese stand
up while they chant, the Tibetans sit down. These variations
are due to cultural adaptations. It is important to understand
that these external forms and ways of doing things are not
the Dharma. They are tools to help us practice the Dharma
better according to the culture and place in which we live.
However, the real Dharma cannot be seen with our eyes or
heard with our ears. It is to be experienced by our mind.
The real Dharma is what we must emphasize and give our attention
to, not superficial appearances which may vary from place
to place.
THE
BUDDHA
Who
is the Buddha? If he is a just a man, how can he help us?
There are many ways to describe who
the Buddha is, according to different ways of understanding.
These various interpretations have their sources in the
Buddha’s teachings. One way is to see the historical Buddha
who lived 2,500 years ago as a human being who cleansed
his mind of all defilements and developed all his potential.
Any being who does likewise is also considered a Buddha,
for there are many Buddhas, not just one. Another way is
to understand a particular Buddha or Buddhist deity as the
omniscient minds manifesting in a certain physical aspect
in order to communicate with us. Yet another way is to see
the Buddha - or any of the enlightened Buddhist deities
- as the appearance of the future Buddha that we will become
once we properly and completely have engaged in the path
to cleanse our mind of defilements and develop all of our
potential. Let’s examine each of these ways in more depth
…..
THE
HISTORICAL BUDDHA
The historical Buddha, Sakyamuni, was
born a prince and had all that life could offer in terms
of material possessions and riches, a loving family, fame,
reputation and power. He saw that although those things
brought temporal worldly happiness, they were never able
to bring lasting happiness. Thus, he left the princely environment
to become an ascetic searching for truth. After doing severe
physical austerities for six years, he saw that the extreme
of self-denial also was not the path to ultimate happiness.
At this point, he sat under the bodhi tree, and in deep
meditation completely purified his mind of all wrong conceptions,
contaminated actions and their imprints and brought to perfection
all of his potential and good qualities. He then proceeded
with great compassion, wisdom and skill, to give teachings,
thus enabling others to gradually purify their mind, develop
their potential, and attain the same realizations and state
of happiness that he had.
How can such a person save us from
our problems and pain? Certainly he cannot he cannot pull
out the afflictive emotions from our mind in the same way
as a thorn can be extracted from someone’s foot. Nor can
he wash away our defilements with water, or pour his realizations
into our minds. The Buddha has impartial compassion to all
sentient beings and cherishes us more than himself, so if
our sufferings could have been eliminated by only the action
of the Buddha, he would have done it already.
However, our experience, our happiness
or pain, depends on our mind. It depends on whether or not
we assume the responsibility to subdue our afflictive emotions
and actions. The Buddha showed the method to do this, the
method that he himself used to go from the state of an ordinary
confused being like we are now to the state of total purification
and growth, or Buddhahood. It is up to us to practice this
method and transform our own mind. Sakyamuni Buddha is someone
who did what we want to do - to reach a state of lasting
happiness. He taught that by means of both his life story
and the various teachings he gave. But he cannot control
out minds, only we can. Our enlightenment depends not only
on the Buddha showing us the way, but on our own efforts
to follow it.
It is like if we want to go to London.
First we find out if such a place called London actually
exists and then we look for someone who has been there and
who has the knowledge and capability and willingness to
give us all of the travel information. It would be foolish
to follow someone who had never been there, because he/she
could unwittingly make a mistake in the explanation. Likewise,
the Buddha has attained the state of total purification
and growth; he has the wisdom, compassion and skill to show
us the path. It would be silly to entrust ourselves to the
guidance of someone who had not reached the enlightened
state him/herself.
Our travel guide can give us information
about what to take with on our trip and what to leave behind.
He/she can tell us how to change planes, how to recognize
the various places we will pass through, what dangers we
could encounter along the way and so forth. Similarly, the
Buddha has described the various levels of the paths and
stages, how to progress from one to the next, what qualities
to take with us and develop, and which ones to leave behind.
However, a travel guide cannot force us to make the journey
– he/she can only indicate the way. We have to get ourselves
to the airport and on the plane. Just so, the Buddha cannot
force us to practice the path. He gives the teachings and
shows by his example how to do it, but we have to do it
ourselves.
THE
BUDDHA AS MANIFESTATIONS
The second way to think of the Buddhas
is as manifestations of omniscient minds in a physical form.
Those beings who are Buddhas are omniscient in that they
perceive all existent phenomena as clearly as we can see
the palm of our hand. They achieved this ability by fully
developing their wisdom and compassion, thus eliminating
all defects. But we cannot communicate directly with the
Buddhas’ omniscient minds as we have no clairvoyance. In
order for the Buddhas to fulfil their most heartfelt wish
to lead all sentient beings to enlightenment, they have
to communicate with us, and in order to do so, they assume
a physical form. In this way, we can think of Sakyamuni
Buddha as a being who has already enlightened, and who appeared
in the aspect of a prince in order to teach us.
But if he is already enlightened, how
can he take rebirth? Sakyamuni did not take rebirth under
the control of afflictive emotions and contaminated actions
(karma) as ordinary beings do, as he had already eliminated
these defilements from his mind. However, he was able to
appear on this earth by the power of compassion.
When thinking of the Buddha as a manifestation,
do not emphasize the Buddha as a personality. Rather, concentrate
on the qualities of the omniscient mind appearing in the
form of a person. This is a more abstract way of understanding
the Buddha, so it takes more effort on our part to think
in this way and to understand.
In the same way, the various enlightened
Buddhist deities can be seen as manifestation of the omniscient
minds. Why are there so many deities if all the beings who
have attained enlightenment have the same realizations?
This is because each physical appearance emphasizes and
communicates with different aspects of our personality.
This demonstrates the Buddhas’ skillful means. For example,
Avalokiteshvara (Kuan Yin, Chenresig) is the manifestation
of the compassion of all the Buddhas. Although possessing
all the compassion and wisdom of any Buddha, Avalokiteshvara’s
particular manifestation emphasizes compassion. By thinking
of, praying to and meditating on Avalokiteshvara, we can
develop all the qualities of the Buddhas, and especially
our compassion will develop more quickly.
The white color of Avalokiteshvara
emphasizes purity, in this case the purification of selfishness
through compassion. The thousand arms, each with an eye
in its palm, expresses how impartial compassion looks upon
all beings and is willing to reach out to help them. By
visualizing compassion in this physical aspect, we communicate
with compassion in a non-verbal and symbolic way.
Manjushri is the manifestation of the
wisdom of all the Buddhas, although Manjushri, too, has
the same realizations as all the Buddhas. Manjushri, as
found in the Tibetan tradition, is depicted as yellow in
color, holding a flaming sword and a lotus flower with the
Perfection of Wisdom Sutra. This physical form is
symbolic of inner realizations. Yellow color represents
wisdom, which illuminates the mind just as golden rays of
the sun light up the earth. The sword, too, represents wisdom
in its function of cutting ignorance. Holding the Perfection
of Wisdom Sutra indicate that the way we are to develop
wisdom is by studying, contemplating and meditating on this
sutra. By visualizing and meditating on Manjushri, we can
attain the qualities of a Buddha, especially wisdom.
In this way we can understand why there
are so many deities. Each emphasizes a particular aspect
of enlightened qualities, in order to communicate that quality
to us symbolically. That does not mean, however, that there
is no such being as Avalokiteshvara, for on one level, we
can understand the Buddha of Compassion to be a person residing
in a certain Pure Land. On another level, we can see him
(or her) as a manifestation of compassion in a physical
form. Do not get confused because Avalokiteshvara is sometimes
in a male form and sometimes in a female form. It is not
because he/she could not make up his/her mind! The enlightened
mind is actually beyond being male or female. These are
just appearances in order to communicate with us ordinary
beings who are so involved in forms. An enlightened being
can appear in a wide variety of bodies.
The nature of all these various manifestations
is the same: the omniscient mind of wisdom and compassion.
All of the Buddhas and deities are not separate beings in
the same way that an apple and an orange are separate fruits.
Rather, they all have the same nature, only they appear
in different external forms in order to communicate with
us in different ways. From one lump of clay, a pot, a vase,
a plate, or a figurine can be made. The nature of all of
them is the same – clay – yet they perform different functions
according to how the clay is shaped. In the same way, the
nature of all the Buddhas and deities is the omniscient
mind of wisdom and compassion. This appears in a variety
of forms in order to perform various functions. Thus, when
we want to develop compassion, we emphasize meditation on
Avalokiteshvara; when our mind is dull and sluggish, we
emphasize the practice of Manjushri, the Buddha of Wisdom.
These Buddhas all have the same realizations, yet each one
has his/her speciality.
THE
BUDDHA THAT WE WILL BECOME
The third way to understand the Buddha
that we take refuge in is as the appearance of our own Buddha
nature in its fully developed form. All sentient beings
have the potential to become Buddhas, for we all have the
clear nature of the mind. At the present our mind is clouded
by afflictive emotions (klesa) and actions (karma). Through
constant practice, we can remove these defilements from
our mind stream and nourish the seeds of all the beautiful
potentials we have. Thus, each of us can become a Buddha
when this process of purification and growth is completed.
This is a feature unique to Buddhism, for in most other
religions there is an irreparable gap between the divine
being and the human being. However, the Buddha said that
each sentient being has the potential for perfection. It
is only a matter of engaging in the practice and creating
the causes to reach perfection.
When we visualize the Buddha or a deity
and think of him/her as the future Buddha that we will become,
we are imagining our now latent Buddha nature in its completely
developed form. We are thinking of the future time when
we shall have completed the path of purification and growth.
We are imagining the future in the present, and in this
way reaffirming our own latent goodness. This also helps
us to understand that what ultimately protects us from suffering
is our own practice and achievement of enlightenment.
These different ways of understanding
the Buddha are progressively more difficult to understand.
We may not grasp them immediately. That is alright. Various
interpretations are explained because people have different
ways of understanding. We are not expected to all think
in the same way or to understand everything at once.
IDOLS
& OFFERINGS
Do
Buddhists worship idols?
Not at all! A piece of clay or bronze
or jade is not the object of our respect and worship. When
we bow before Buddha images, we are recalling the qualities
of the enlightened beings. It is their impartial love and
compassion, generosity, morality, patience, joyous effort,
concentration and wisdom that we are showing respect to.
The statue or painting serves to remind us of the qualities
of the Buddha, and it is the qualities, not the clay, that
we are bowing to. We need not have a statue in front of
us in order to bow to or respect the Buddhas and their qualities.
For example, if we go to a place far
away from our family, we think about them and feel much
love. But we also like to have a photo of them with us to
remember them better. When we look at the photo and feel
love for our family, we are not loving the paper and ink
of the photo! The photo merely strengthens our memory. It
is similar with a statue or painting of the Buddha.
By showing respect to the Buddha and
their qualities, we are inspired to develop these extraordinary
qualities on our own mind streams. We become like the people
we respect. When we take the loving-kindness and wisdom
of the Buddhas as our example, we strive to become like
them.
What
is the purpose of making offerings to the Buddha?
We do not make offerings because the
Buddha needs our offerings. When someone has purified all
defilements and enjoys the bliss that comes from wisdom,
he/she certainly does not need an incense stick to be happy!
Neither do we make offerings to win the Buddha’s favor.
The Buddha developed impartial love and compassion long
ago and will not be swayed by flattery and bribery like
ordinary beings! Making offerings is a way to create positive
potential and to develop our mind. At the moment, we have
excessive attachment and miserliness. We keep the biggest
and best for ourselves and give the second best or something
we do not want at all to others. With such selfish traits,
we always feel poor and dissatisfied, no matter how much
we have. We constantly fear losing what little we do have.
Such an attitude towards material objects makes our mind
restless, and induces us to do dishonest actions to get
more things or to be unkind to others in order to protect
what we have.
It is to break these destructive habits
of attachment and miserliness that we make offerings. When
making an offering, we want to do so without any feeling
of loss from our side. It is for this reason that in the
Tibetan tradition, seven bowls of water are offered on the
altar. Water is readily accessible so that we can easily
offer it without attachment or miserliness. By offering
in this way, we habituate ourselves with the thought and
action of giving. Thus, we come to feel rich when we give
and take pleasure in sharing good things with others.
Since the Buddhas, bodhisattvas and
arhats are the highest of all beings, it is good to make
offerings to them. We usually give offerings to our friends
because we like them. Here, we offer to the holy beings
because we are attracted to their qualities. We should not
make offerings with a motivation to bribe the Buddhas, "I
offered you incense, now you are obliged to grant my prayers"!
We give with a respectful and kind attitude. If later, we
make a request, we do so with humility. Do not think that
they do not receive the offerings just because the flowers
and fruit are still on the altar the next day. They can
receive them without taking them away.
Is
there symbolic meaning to each offering substance?
Yes. Flowers represent the qualities
of the Buddhas and bodhisattvas, incense the fragrance of
pure morality. Light symbolizes wisdom, and perfume represents
faith. Offering food is like offering the nourishment of
meditative concentration and music symbolizes impermanence
and the empty nature of all phenomena.
While we may physically offer one flower,
mentally we can imagine the entire sky filled with beautiful
flowers and offer these as well. It enriches our mind to
imagine lovely things and then offer them to the Buddhas
and bodhisattvas.
Should
we offer our food before eating it?
Yes. Normally we just dive into a plate
of food with much attachment, little mindfulness, and even
less real enjoyment. Now, we pause before eating and imagine
the food as blissful nectar. This is offered to a small
Buddha made of light in our heart center (chakra). The Buddha
enjoys the nectar and he radiates even more light which
fills our entire body and makes us very blissful. In this
way, we remain mindful of the Buddha and of the process
of eating. We create positive potential by offering to the
Buddha, and we also enjoy the food more.
Before eating, some people like to
recite the prayer: "May we and those around us never
be separated from the Three Jewels (Buddha, Dharma and Sangha)
in all future lives. May we continuously make offerings
to the Three Jewels and may we receive the inspiration of
the Three Jewels."
PRAYER
& DEDICATING POSITIVE POTENTIAL
Why
make prayers? Can they be fulfilled?
There are many kinds of prayers. Some
are to direct and inspire our mind towards a certain quality
or aim, thus creating the cause for us to attain this. An
example is praying to be more tolerant and compassionate
towards others. Other prayers are for specific people or
situations, as in praying for a certain person’s illness
to be cured. To have either type of prayer fulfilled depends
on more than just praying: the appropriate cause must also
be created. It is not just a matter of saying, "Please,
Buddha, make this and that happen, but I’m going to relax
and have tea while you do the work!"
For example, if we pray to be more
loving and compassionate and yet make no effort to control
our anger, we are not creating the cause for that prayer
to be fulfilled. The transformation of our mind comes from
our own effort, and we pray for the Buddhas’ inspiration
to do so. "Receiving the blessings of the Buddhas"
does not mean that something tangible comes from the Buddhas
and goes into us. It means that our mind is transformed
through the combined effort of the teachings and guidance
of the Buddhas and bodhisattvas and our own practice. Thus,
we cannot pray to be born in a pure land and expect the
Buddhas and Bodhisattvas to do all the work! We must also
make effort to actualize the teachings: we gradually develop
detachment from worldly pleasures, we practice compassion
as much as we can, and we generate wisdom. Then, praying
has an exceptionally profound effect on our mind. However,
if we do nothing to correct our bad habits of body, speech
and mind, and if our mind is distracted while praying, then
there is minimal effect.
As for our prayers for a sickness to
be cured or the family finances to improve or for a deceased
relative to have a good rebirth, these, too, depend on the
person involved having created the necessary causes. If
he/she has, our prayers provide the condition for the seed
of a virtuous action he/she did in the past to ripen and
bring its result. However, if that person has not created
the causal seed through his/her own positive past actions,
then it is difficult for our prayers to be fulfilled. We
can put fertilizers and water on the ground, but if the
farmer has not planted the seed, nothing will grow.
While describing how cause and effect
works in our mental continuum, the Buddha said that killing
causes shortage of life. Both abandoning killing and saving
others’ lives cause us to have a long life, free from illness.
If we neglect to follow this basic advice and yet pray to
have a long and healthy life, we are missing the point!
On the other hand, if in the past the person concerned has
abandoned killing and has saved lives, then prayers for
him/her could be fulfilled.
In the same way, the Buddha said generosity
is the cause of wealth. If we have been generous in a past
life and now pray for our wealth to increase, then our finances
could improve. Yet, if we are very miserly now, we are creating
the cause for poverty, nor wealth, in the future. Being
generous, helping those in need and sharing what we have,
will bring their desirable results sometime in the future.
On the other hand, when we experience some difficulties
in our life, it is good to ask ourselves, "What kind
of action could I have done that created the cause for this
result?" This we can learn from the Buddha’s teachings.
Then we can change our behavior to avoid leaving more seeds
to experience that undesirable result.
What
role does chanting play in our spiritual development?
Chanting can be very beneficial if
engaged in with the proper motivation – wishing to prepare
for future lives, striving for liberation from the cycle
of constantly recurring problems, or aiming for the full
enlightenment of a Buddha with an altruistic motivation.
Also, for chanting to be effective in helping us to generate
positive states of mind, we need to concentrate and reflect
upon the meaning of what we are chanting. There is not much
benefit if we chant while our mind is thinking about food
or work or parties. A tape recorder can also chant the names
of the Buddhas and say prayers! Let’s make what our mind
is thinking correspond to what our mouth is chanting. Then
chanting is very powerful and beneficial.
However, a complete spiritual practice
is more than just chanting. It is good to listen to teachings,
contemplate their meaning and integrate them into our daily
life, thus developing beneficial actions with our body,
speech and mind. We cannot be liberated from samsara by
chanting alone, for deep meditation is necessary in order
to generate the wisdom realizing selflessness.
Can
merits be transferred to deceased ones?
"Dedicate" rather than "transfer"
merits (positive potential) conveys the meaning better.
We cannot transfer merits in the same way as we can transfer
the title to a piece of property or in the same way as I
give my car to you because you do not have one. The Buddha
stated that those who create the causes are the ones who
experience the results. I cannot create the cause and you
experience the results, because the imprint or seed of the
action has been implanted on my mental continuum, not yours.
So if the deceased ones did not create positive actions
while they were alive, we cannot create the good karma and
then give them our good karma to experience.
However, our prayers and offering on
their behalf can create the circumstances necessary so that
a positive action they created can bear its fruit. When
a seed is planted in a field, it needs the cooperative conditions
of sunshine, water and fertilizer to grow. Likewise, a seed
or imprint of an action a person performed will ripen when
all the cooperative conditions are present. If the deceased
one has done beneficial actions while he/she was alive,
then the additional positive potential we create by making
offering or doing any kind of virtuous action – reciting
and reading Dharma texts, making statues of the Buddha,
contemplating love and compassion for all beings and so
forth – can help them. We dedicate the positive potential
from these actions for the benefit of the deceased person,
and this could help his/her own virtuous seeds to ripen.
What
is merit? Isn’t it selfish to do positive actions just to
get merit, as if it were spiritual money?
"Merit" is an English word
that does nor really give the correct connotation. It sounds
like getting gold stars in school because you did well,
and that is not the meaning intended here. First of all,
no one is rewarding us. When we do a beneficial action,
it leaves an imprint or seed on our mental continuum, and
when the necessary cooperative conditions are present, it
will bear fruit. It is not a physical seed or imprint, but
an intangible one, a positive potential.
It is not very advantageous to grasp
at positive potential as if it were spiritual money. If
we do, we are likely to quarrel with other people over who
can make offerings first or become jealous of others because
they do more virtuous actions than we do. Such attitudes
are certainly not very beneficial! While it is good to take
advantage of opportunities to create positive potential,
we should do so in order to improve ourselves, to create
the cause for happiness and to help others, not out of attachment
or jealousy.
Why
must positive potential be dedicated? What should it be
dedicated for?
It is important to dedicate our positive
potential so it does not get destroyed by our anger or wrong
views. Like the steering wheel guiding where the car goes,
dedication will guide how our positive potential ripens.
It is best to dedicate for the most extensive and noble
goals. If we do so, all the smaller results will naturally
come. If we set our destination as London, we will pass
through Delhi and Kuwait along the way; we do not need a
special ticket for those places. Likewise, if we dedicate
our positive potential, however small, towards the ultimate
happiness and enlightenment of all sentient beings, this
automatically includes dedicating for a good rebirth and
for the happiness of our relatives and friends.
Some people think, "I have so
little positive potential. If I dedicate it for the happiness
of everyone, then I won’t have any left over for myself."
This is not correct. By dedicating our positive potential
to others, it does not mean that we have less for ourselves.
We will not become paupers by sharing the good results of
our actions with others. While dedicating our positive potential
for the benefit of all beings, we can still make special
prayers, for the happiness of a particular person who is
having difficulties at that time.
REBIRTH
vs CREATION
What
is rebirth?
Rebirth refers to a person’s mind taking
one body after the other. Our body and our mind are separate
entities: the body is matter and is made of atoms. The mind
refers to all of our emotional and cognitive experiences,
and is formless. When the body and mind are linked, we are
alive, but at death, they separate. The body becomes a corpse,
and the mind continues on to take another body.